When an event occurs such as an accident, a miscommunication, something is lost or gained, a shock can enter any of a human being's 5 Bodies. The shock-effect is the symptom of not being in the Present with whatever happened or did not happen, thus creating a Gap.
The split between what happened and where the person functions in current time, might be filled with any number of things, such as Emotions, Stories, Projections, Conclusions, Confusion, Self-Doubt (which comes from a story), etc.
In the As Is Process the Possibilitator (e.g. Possibility Coach, Possibility Trainer, Possibility Psychologist, or Possibility Mediator) connects with the Client and makes a leap in time with them back to the moment that the shock originated. Then the Possibilitator uses Completion Loops for every step of the evolution of events for all 5 Bodies of the Client, dragging the Present from the past into the present of the Present moment, making them whole again, healing the wound.
'As Is-ing' works equally well for children and adults. It is a standard healing tool that proceeds magnificently. We hope you learn it. The way to start learning it is by doing this Experiment.
For this next week keep 3% of your Attention reserved for Noticing 'reality splits', that is, a gap between where you would expect a person to be and where they seem to be. The instant you find a 'reality split', gently interrupt the flow of the conversation by making a Meta Conversation - a conversation about the conversation - "May I ask you a question about something I just noticed? (Yes.) It looks like there is a 'reality split' between something that happened to you and who you are right now. If you would let me, I would accompany you on a journey starting at the moment the gap happened back here to the present, filling in the gaps along the way. This is called 'As-Ising'. It might take ten minutes or so. Are you willing?"
If they say, "Yes," then start with a question like, "How old were you when this thing happened?" Use whatever Golden Key they give you, and make a Completion Loop with each-and-every 5 Body sharing they give you. Ask them to be clear and specific with names, dates, what exactly happened - and their 4 Feelings about it - as you progress from there back then to here and NOW.